First though--before my thoughts---The Words that Jesus spoke:
Math 19 4 He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? (His Words cannot be changed!)
6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”
10 [His] disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
11 He answered, “Not all can accept [this] word,* but only those to whom that is granted.
12 Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage* for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.”
It is verse 12--some were born so--that I feel led to speak about. Many say "I was born this way, God created me this way." God did form each of us in the womb, however according to our Churches teaching---the sin of Adam was passed down to each baby in the womb also.
Maybe if we changed the sin of Adam to the sin of ancestors and parents passed down to the child within the womb--it could explain a lot and bring understanding and peace to the hearts of many--and hopefully healing as well.
Before explaining how a baby's personality is started already in the womb--let me also state why physically some are born that way. You now a male is XY chromosome and a female--XX. Rare but some males have XYY and a female XXX causing some different physical differences. Then there are some who are born with male or female chromosomes and the opposite physical 'parts' on their physical bodies. We definitely can state ---no matter who you are OR the sex you are---each and every person is born "DIFFERENT!" Agree?
Going back to the sin of ancestors past down and how it can affect the baby in the womb. At week 18 of life, a baby in the womb starts to hear sounds, and by week 24-26, they are SENSITIVE to sound and HEARING voices. So, depending on Mom or Dad's emotional health---what they hear can be pleasant or terrifying. Therefore, emotions like anger, fear, anxiety, hate, can be taking seed within the child's spirit. What if when they are born---they fear the male voice, or the mother's voice? What if when they come into this world, they already have within, a deep sense of being unloved and rejected by one or the other parent. Could that then explain why some come into this world --not attracted to the opposite sex? It would explain why any of us born into this world can feel deeply--"what is wrong with me, or why do I feel the way I do." Depression, split personalities, fearful, over anxious, introvert, extrovert---just think of all the different mental traits that need to be understood and wisdom sought about 'WHY' are they within me.
Then in Numbers 14 v 18 we see where because of the Israelites rebellious nature God told Moses-this fact.
18 ‘The LORD is slow to anger and abounding in kindness, forgiving iniquity and rebellion; yet certainly not declaring the guilty guiltless, but punishing children to the third and fourth generation for their parents’ iniquity.’
There is a NEED for generational healing and prayers are written to pray for this healing. . Here is a link to one--http://www.scborromeo.org/prayers/familytree.pdf
Eph 3:14-21 is the perfect Scriptural prayer for the family. (I pray this daily for this to become reality in my family.)
Do you know your ancestors past history, and also health issues passed down? You should see a trend over the years, about how they died or personalities, addictions or problems they had.
One other explanation of what also can be passed down and therefore the need for generational healing---"Spells, hexes, or curses spoken against a ancestor. Dealings with the occult by family ancestors also." All of this is "SIN" passed down into the baby.
You will say--Baptism takes this away. The sin of Adam, we are taught --Yes. BUT there is a need for generational healing, inner healing, and the healing of the wounded child within us all. Many children grow to hate that 'very wounded parent' that raises them and this deep hurt and their need to be loved and accepted---will send them to a SAME SEX PARTNER! Their Mom or Dad failed to give them the love they so desperately needed, so they look for a substitute. But, that is not the answer. Only GOD's love can give us what we long for--no matter what substitute for comfort we seek. (I am referring to addictions. Remember the First Commandment dear ones.)
Hopefully this will bring some understanding and wisdom into all of our minds ---so that we can Love as Jesus Loves and help to bring much needed love and acceptance into all who long for someone to 'love me.'
"Love, my children, love as I have loved you.