Be Careful What You Say
My wife and I have been on some famous trails, the El Camino de Santiago (or Way of St. James in Spain) and the Appalachian Trail. Don’t be impressed just yet. I never said we journeyed on those trails. In fact, in both cases we happened to be near a trail head so stepped in to take a picture and just for fun say we were on the trail. Our preference is to take walks in local parks. It is much easier and less time consuming.
Some Christians talk about their journey with Christ; others talk about walking with Christ. As I compared taking a journey on a famous trail to walking at the local park, I wondered whether my spiritual life on earth is a journey or a walk. Here, I’d like to share my thoughts about taking a journey versus a walk.
Taking a journey
A journey is a long trip, especially to a faraway place; and takes a long time. The first thing that must happen is to set a destination, so proper plans can be made. So, those planning a journey on the El Camino de Santiago decide if they are walking the whole trail or not. If they decide the destination is the very end, they know the trip is around 500 miles and a very experienced hiker will take about 30 days to complete the journey. If our first spiritual question is “What is the destination?”, most Christians would respond “Heaven”. That could take a very long time to get there, so it could certainly qualify as a journey.
Journeys require planning. Without proper preparation, walking the full El Camino de Santiago can be disastrous. One would want a training plan to be sure they can physically handle the walk. They need to have the right equipment and sufficient food, water and supplies; but not so much they over burden themselves. There also needs to be a certain mental preparation for the challenges and trials that happen along the way. On our spiritual journey we may also have a training plan, be spiritually fed and work on being mentally prepared for battle against our enemy. For our supplies, we put on the armor of God.
Journeys are often difficult, filled with unknown challenges and dangers. Hot sun, hard rains, winds and damage to paths can beat down the weary traveler. Trials and tribulations for a weary Christian can certainly overcome the joy of the journey.
Finally, part of the experience of the journey is the comfort and companionship of other travelers. Living past glories of the journey, discussing upcoming challenges and sharing supplies to another traveler who did not plan well enough are all part of the experience. Christians, as well, find the testimonies and assistance of more experienced Christians beneficial and part of the journey.
Taking a walk
Walks tend to be shorter; and although some planning is necessary there is certainly not as much planning as taking a journey. Walks usually do not have destinations. A walk can be just for fun or maybe to see some scenery along the way. There can be some challenges on walks such as fallen branches or washed away path. Others may be encountered on a walk; but the dialogue is usually a simple “Hello” or “Is the waterfall close?”. Walks are easy compared to journeys. So far, everything points to having a spiritual journey and not a walk; but let’s continue.
One of the recommendations for travelers before their journey is to think about their goal or destination, and ask why that destination is important. Heaven seems like a good destination for Christians. It is pretty obvious that the only other eternal destination is not a good one. But desiring Heaven only to avoid the alternative hardly seems like a good reason to choose Heaven as a destination. Heaven sounds like a pretty cool place with lots of good things going on, as described in Revelations Chapter 21. But desiring Heaven because it will bring us joy seems pretty selfish. Heaven might seem like a good place to meet up with loved ones who have gone before us. But Heaven is not just a family reunion. The real clue comes from Matthew 22:37 where Jesus says “love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind”. Our purpose for desiring Heaven should be union with God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. God, then, is the real destination. So, we seek God, or do we?
I was quite intrigued by the very first sentence in the prologue of the Catholic Catechism, “God, infinitely perfect and blessed in himself, in a plan of sheer goodness freely created man to make him share in his own blessed life. For this reason, at every time and in every place, God draws close to man.”. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 13:5, “Do you not realize that Jesus Christ is in you?” So, our destination comes to us and dwells within us? Absolutely. He comes to us, and we open our hearts and accept Him.
For the Christian who fully allows Jesus to dwell in their heart, the destination is within them and the journey is over. But if that is true, why does faith waiver and times become difficult? Let’s review what happens when a parent takes a child on a walk. My wife and I would often take our children, and grandchildren, for walks in a park. Our experiences with both were similar. If we are God’s children, then His experience walking with us probably just the same.
The preferable way to walk with a child is to hold their hand. In this manner they are always close and safe. The child cannot get into any trouble or poison ivy nor get lost. Holding hands is the most enjoyable and least stressful way to walk. In very dangerous circumstances, like crossing a busy street, the parent will not let go of the child’s hand. No chances will be taken. I believe our Lord feels the same way. He wants us close, but will let our hand go if we really want to. But when there is danger to our soul, He will not let go of our hand.
Sometimes a child wants to stay close but feel independent. They will let go of the parent’s hand but walk close by. Although not a bad alternative, once the child lets go of the hand they can begin to stray. Freedom allows temptation to take over.
One such temptation is when there is something of great interest to them but the parent continues walking. The child lags further and further behind. At first, the parent slows down and then stops in their tracks to ensure they keep an eye on the child. If all else fails, the parent will backtrack to urge the child to move forward. Jesus is always calling us forward into a deeper union with him. Our distractions and sins can hold us back. The Apostle Peter walked on the water towards Jesus; but when he got distracted by the troubles around him, he took his eyes off Jesus and began to sink. He called out to Jesus. “Immediately Jesus stretched out his hand and caught him” (Matthew 14:31). Peter stopped sinking once Jesus held his hand.
Sometimes the child may run ahead; wanting to move at a faster pace or seeing something of interest. I always let my children have their freedom and run ahead; but kept close watch and once they got out of my sight would call them back. As they were leaving my sight, I would command them to stop and wait until I caught up. How often do we become impatient with God’s timing and venture out on our own? Jesus allows us the free will to run ahead of him. But if we get out of His sight, he will always call us back. We just have to listen.
The one thing my wife and I never let happen is straying off the path. The moment a foot went off the path we would immediately tell them to get back on the path. There was too much danger off the path: animals, branches to fall on, poison ivy and such. They never seemed to remember this rule and about every walk we would have to remind them. We forget, too. We forget the trouble we got ourselves into the last time we strayed from the path Jesus walks. He always calls us back. But if we ignore His word, we can get into all kinds of trouble.
Conclusion
We are on a walk with Christ, not a journey to find him. This is important to understand because of what it means to our spiritual being.
If we believe we are on a journey, we can fall into the pitfalls of the weary traveler. The destination may seem too far away and unobtainable. We may rely too much on ourselves and the preparation or effort we put into our journey as a means of success. When things go wrong, we may feel alone or abandoned. We can feel threatened by the challenges we face.
We are God’s children. And as children we likely will always continue to run ahead or fall behind. We do not despair over the times we stray; because He loves us and will always extend His hand to take us back and protect us.