We are Weary Women

I was recently at a Catholic Women's Conference in my hometown, and as I looked at all of the women there of varying ages, races, and backgrounds, I noticed a certain weariness on the faces of most of them – especially the middle aged and older women. 

I wondered: Has the persistence and perseverance of life and faith made them weary? 

Moreover, how can it not? 

The older I get, the wearier I feel as a woman. The sufferings of this life seem never-ending. The prayers we constantly say are not always answered. The stresses and anxieties of daily life weigh heavy. The struggle to make ends meet permeates our economy. The burden of not having any time for ourselves. The illnesses we endure. The caregiving of our parents and loved ones that’s inevitable. The toil of home and career that seem to only increase as the years move along. The pressure to be a “good Catholic,” serve others, say our daily prayers, put food on the table, care for our families, maintain a household, participate in ministries, and proclaim the Word of God.

All of this wearies us. No wonder so many of us feel burned out.

Today, the second reading and Gospel reveals to us the power of persistence in prayer and the life of faith. In other words, keep persisting through the struggle.

But more importantly, look at the first reading and psalm which show us that we aren’t alone in the weariness and weakness we feel. God gives us help and companions to support us on the journey like He did for Moses. And, God above all, can be our refuge, helper, and guardian when we grow weary.

Weary woman, may the Lord keep your hands raised in prayer and may He always be your helper, your guardian, and your shade as you walk through your weariness.