The Fourth Commandment - Part 1

The Fourth Commandment – Part 1

Submitted by Thomas Stidl

         What is the Fourth Commandment?  Honor thy father and thy mother.

         Did you know that this commandment comes with a reward?  What is the reward?  It is a long life on the land that God has bestowed upon you.

         How do we accomplish this responsibility?  As children we learn to respect our earthly father and mother.  They feed us, clothe us, educate us, and discipline us so when we mature we can take our place in society and keep the life cycle going.  Parents should also realize that they must step aside to allow their children to answer the calling of God as to their career in life.  Parents are also not to make their children in need of mommy and daddy.  Parents must train their children to be independent for themselves but still be caring for their parents and siblings.

         Even though the core family members mature and branch out to new vistas, each member of the family still has duties and responsibilities to all the members of that family.  It is the bond of love.  Love forgives all the wrong doings of parents and children while maturing.  Yes, even parents are human and sometimes make mistakes.  Rivalry between brothers and sisters exist and should be forgiven and forgotten.  No one should hold grudges against anyone especially family members.  All should admit their mistakes, ask forgiveness, and be forgiven.

         Remember, some day we will hopefully sit at the banquet feast table in Heaven.  That is why all arguments must cease now!!!

         How else must children act in accordance with this commandment?  As our parents age, they will become more dependent on us.  We must be sure that they are cared for by us.  This is a shared responsibility for all siblings.  Try not to leave the burden on one sibling.  Personally, I helped my mother with her mother’s care and my father’s care.  I took care of my mother, my older brother, and his two dogs.  I saw each one to their respective graves.  Pertaining to the promise of the Fourth Commandment, will I live to the age of Methuselah?  That is up to God!!  If you must commit your parents to nursing home, visit them often, daily if possible.  Parents who are alone miss their children too.  If you cannot visit, call them daily.  This will keep the bond of love alive and well in your family.  

         Until next time, Laus Tibi, Christe.  Deo Gratias.  Gloria Tibi Domini.  Praise be to God.  See you in Paradise.