Part Two: The Catholic Church in Revolutionary and Napoleonic France: Faith, Resilience, and Transformation
When life doesn’t go according to plan, how do we respond? Most of us have experienced moments when our intentions are disrupted by unexpected forces. In those moments, we often feel frustration or doubt. But could there be another way to navigate these twists and turns? Mary, the mother of Jesus, offers a profound example of radical trust in God’s plan, even when her circumstances seemed to contradict her hopes.
Did Mary’s Trust in God Clash with Her Plans?
Consider Mary’s situation. From a young age, many scholars believe that she intended to devote herself completely to God, perhaps even making a vow of virginity (Mariology: A Guide for Priests, Deacons, Seminarians, and Consecrated Persons). So, when the prospect of marriage to Joseph came up, wouldn’t this have seemed like a disruption to her plans? After all, marriage typically leads to family life, something seemingly at odds with her vow.
Now, Mary didn’t resist. Rather than see this as an obstacle, she trusted that God’s will could be fulfilled even through the unexpected. She believed that if God willed her to remain consecrated to Him, He would make a way, even within marriage. And indeed, her union with Joseph became a paradoxical fulfillment: a marriage that upheld both her virginity and the bond of partnership (Pope St. John Paul II, Redemptoris Mater, no. 17). This trust is a profound lesson for all of us. How often do we resist the unexpected because it doesn’t align with our plans?
Can God’s Will Fulfill Our Deepest Desires?
It’s easy to think that when life throws us off course, we must choose between our original desires and the new reality. But Mary’s life suggests something different. Her story shows that God’s will doesn’t cancel out our deepest hopes but often fulfills them in ways more profound than we can imagine.
Mary’s radical trust teaches us that God is not only interested in our obedience but also in transforming our desires to align with His greater plan. She didn’t abandon her cultural responsibilities or her obedience to her family. Instead, she harmonized these with her unique vocation (Vatican II, Lumen Gentium, no. 58). Her yes to God wasn’t a rejection of her previous life, but a transformation of it.
Does Obedience to God Limit Our Freedom?
In modern culture, obedience is often seen as a limitation of freedom. But Mary’s story flips this assumption on its head. For Mary, obedience to God wasn’t a stifling of her freedom, it was its fulfillment. She remained faithful to her people, her family, and her customs, all while listening to the deeper call God had placed on her life (St. Augustine, Sermon 51: On the Creed).
This kind of obedience challenges us to rethink our view of freedom. Mary’s fiat, her willing “yes” to God (Luke 1:38), shows that true freedom is found in aligning our will with God’s, even when His plans differ from our own (St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, III, Q. 30, a. 1). Can we adopt this posture of radical trust and obedience in our own lives?
How Can We Trust God When Life Doesn’t Go According to Plan?
At some point, we all face moments when our plans fall apart. How do we respond in these times? Do we cling to our expectations, or do we open ourselves to the possibility that God is at work in ways we can’t yet see?
Mary’s story invites us to embrace the unknown with trust. Her life challenges us to believe that even when circumstances seem confusing or contradictory, God’s will is still moving us toward the greater good (Benedict XVI, Deus Caritas Est, no. 39). It raises the question: do we truly trust that God is working through the unexpected?
Mary’s radical trust is a model for us today. Her life teaches us that when our plans are disrupted, we are invited to go deeper into the mystery of God’s will (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 148–149). So, when life takes an unexpected turn, how will we respond? Will we resist, or will we trust that God is leading us toward something even greater?
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