What will our Legacy be?

What will our Legacy be?

Eileen Renders

   A legacy can be referred to in the sense of an adjective, such as in a will or inheritance.  It can also be referred to as associated a person, and in the mind of a noun. As adults who mature and decide upon our careers and paths in life, ultimately, we all leave behind something of ourselves at the end of our days.

   For some, it will be highlighted by the thoughtful inheritance we leave to our heirs; for others, it may be who we were, what we believed, and how we lived. Some are remembered for their valuable scientific discoveries, or it may be lessons taught, our courage of faith, and our morals.

   What is it we want to be remembered for? Also, what is it we do not want to be remembered for?

It may be early in our lives for contemplating our departure, however, when family, especially when children are involved, we need to be a role model by example. Research studies say it is children's younger years that are the most impressionable. 

   Leaving a huge monetary inheritance may ensure our children or heirs will be provided for

 and, hopefully, appreciate their inheritance and use it wisely. Navigating life with all of its untimely and unsuspected crises requires an ability to calmly sort it all out, review available options, and have the confidence to make good choices based upon our knowledge and understanding. These attributes are sometimes innate but often learned through the example of a trusted spouse, family member, friend, or teacher.

   Making a decision that leads a child, or young adult down the wrong path where it may become very difficult to turn back can lead to a wasted life. What is meant by that statement is how a young person, especially one without a positive planned course, can become involved with “friends” that lead one into pornography, drugs, or even a criminal life. A life without a God they believe in or follow.

   Comparing money from an inheritance as an heir, or the core values of faith, courage, values, and morals now looks like a no-brainer. When hearing the words “Sins of the parents”, perhaps we can see how they do have the influence to teach their children and set them on a path that they might appreciate and pay it forward. God is watching at all times, and we would be wise to ask ourselves, “What would Jesus have me do or say in this particular situation?”

   Simply by questioning ourselves in this manner, we are including God’s leadership in our lives and in the lives of those who look to us for guidance.