Five Takeaways from Pre-Cana Class

Catholics who got married may recall that one important day to prepare for the biggest day of their lives, Pre-Cana, or often referred to as Marriage Prep.

Recently, I attended a one-day Pre-Cana with eight other couples. The deacon who led the day-long seminar made it engaging and fun. He opened in his remarks, reminding us that we were “here for the sacrament, not the party.” It was a statement that I will never forget.

After the day-long event, my fiancée and I walked away with five lessons that will benefit us as we embark on our journey as husband and wife.

Communication is key

70 to 80 percent of how we communicate is with our bodies. Couples today lack it in many given situations. We must remember to discuss our issues with one another from our day, what to have to eat, or making decisions on where to go or what to do.

It’s even important to share with spouse about what is on one’s mind. No one can read minds.

Receiving the Sacraments Together

Couples who have their marriage centered on God are less likely to divorce. It is because their faith is the foundation of marriage.

Be sure to pray with your spouse, attend Mass together, and get to a Holy Hour together.

Contraception Prevents Life

Birth control and the abortion pill are two ways that will destroy a marriage. These methods prevent pregnancy when God wants the couple to bear fruit and multiply.

What even makes it more reckless is how much poison a woman puts in her body, with the myriad of chemicals the pill contains. Many of which can leave lingering side effects and potential death.

Natural Family Planning

Couples who wish to get pregnant must know the cycle to increase their chances of having children.

Prepare for the Unexpected

Sometimes life throws things that can happen at unexpected times. Whether it’s financial, spiritual, or health, have the resources that will get you through the challenging times. Be on top of health coverage, pay ahead on mortgage or loan payments, and find a side hustle.

It is good to provide for one another, and even for children. Watch what money is spent and keep track of it.

Sacred of going to Pre-Cana? Don’t be. It will be an eye-opening experience. Be sure to share stories and ideas with other couples. Pray for them as they pray for you.