Finding Meaning in Our Rituals and Traditions
I was about 8 years old when I was first asked to lead a decade of the Rosary. I remember waiting anxiously through the first part, thinking all kinds of negative thoughts. I was afraid I would fumble the words or lose count or just choke. But my Lola (grandma in Filipino), who in my eyes was the well-seasoned expert in prayer, whispered to me in a calm, reassuring voice: “just say one ‘Hail Mary’ at a time.” And with those words of wisdom and reassurance, I was set. I started out slow, nervous and shaky at first, but then after a few beads, I got into the flow and the rhythm, and I started to gain some confidence. Ten beads later, I found myself not only inhaling with relief, but for the first time, finish leading an entire mystery. That was easy, I thought, and it was quite a proud but quiet moment of accomplishment for the 8-year-old me. Later on in my young life, I would often find myself leading prayer groups through an entire rosary. And it all started with those few words of encouragement that my Lola whispered in my ear.
My Lola planted the seed of faith in me, one rosary bead at a time. My faith and devotion to the Holy Rosary grew and flourished over the years. It has become my go-to therapy and my source of light whenever I find myself lost in my way. With just one bead of Hail Mary, I am led back to where I need to be--in the love and mercy of Jesus.
One small step of prayer and love, and we are well on our way. Remember that faith, no matter how great, is traceable to some humble beginnings. The devotion to the rosary takes one bead at a time, giving us a blessed opportunity to meditate on each ‘Hail Mary’ with great love, being mindful of each uttered word.