"I am asking you to love your enemies."
Turning Point’s base is fiercely pro-life, fiercely pro-liberty, fiercely Christian—and for some, fiercely anti-Catholic. In her speech yesterday at the memorial, Erika Kirk showed something profound: she understands the challenge before her. She spoke not only as a grieving wife, but as a woman of faith who sees the responsibility now resting on her shoulders. Can she keep all Christians Catholic or not united?
For Erika and Turning Point USA, the task is daunting: to unite believers who differ on many things, while standing firm on what matters most. The road ahead will be tough, yet it carries a rare opportunity—to show the next generation that faith in Jesus, beyond denominational lines, is not only alive but leading the way.
Erika was more than a life partner to Charlie—she was a witness, a prayerful influence, someone who embodied Catholic faith daily. And Charlie, in those final days, made clear that her faith had left its mark. Just over a week before he was killed, Charlie had a personal exchange with Bishop Joseph Brennan of Fresno. During that conversation, he spoke about his Catholic wife and children, how he attended Mass with them, and then said, “I’m this close” to converting to Catholicism. (from the Angelus print version)
Charlie also made public comments that revealed real openness to Catholic truth. He said Protestants often “undervalue the Blessed Mother,” Quote: “But let me first say, I think we as Protestants and Evangelicals under-venerate Mary. She was very important. She was a vessel for our Lord and Savior.” ChurchPOP+1
“I think that we, as Evangelicals and Protestants, we've overcorrected. We don't talk about Mary enough. We don't venerate her enough. Mary was clearly important to early Christians. There's something there. In fact, I believe one of the ways that we fix toxic feminism in America is that Mary is the solution.” ChurchPOP+1
Mary is a phenomenal example, and I think a counter to so much of the toxicity of feminism in the modern era.” ChurchPOP+1
In Crisis Magazine, he remarked: “Some of my greatest friends in the world are Catholic … I go to Catholic Mass every once in a while. I don’t take the Eucharist … but I’m open-minded, but I’m not there yet.”
These aren’t fleeting compliments. They are windows into a soul wrestling with deeper questions—questions of identity, of belonging, of truth. That honesty is telling. To receive the Eucharist is to declare with your “Amen” that you believe all the Church teaches and that you are in full communion with her. Charlie understood that. He chose not to receive casually, as some might, but instead showed respect by waiting. This restraint reveals how seriously he took the question of faith—and how close he truly was.
Because Charlie was a seeker of truth, it is more than likely he would one day have become Catholic. It’s clear Erika’s faith wasn’t peripheral. It was central to his spiritual journey.
Now, Erika inherits more than her husband’s legacy. She inherits his spiritual journey in part, and the weight of what could have been—and what might still be, through her witness. The Turning Point base remains fiercely pro-life, fiercely pro-liberty, fiercely Christian—and with some, sharply wary of Catholicism.
Now is the time to come together. To forgive one another. To pray for Christian unity within Turning Point USA. Many evangelicals share essential values with Catholics, yet theological differences remain sharp: the Eucharist, Marian devotion, the papacy, the role of tradition. For many, these are not small matters. If Catholic identity is emphasized too loudly, some may feel excluded. If it is muted too much, the depth of Catholic witness risks being compromised.
This is where Erika must walk with deep prayer, courage, wisdom, and Gods given grace. If the movement fractures, division will have its way—which is exactly what the enemy desires. But if she can hold firm, honoring her Catholic faith while embracing all Christian alliances, something beautiful could emerge: a real unity among Christians, not based on uniformity, but on shared faith in Christ and a common moral purpose.
We are living in a time heavy with symbolism: a Catholic Pope from the New World, and now a Catholic woman at the heart of one of the largest youth movements in American history. Providence does not always speak loudly, but in moments like this, it whispers—and sometimes more. Charlie’s words—“I’m this close,” his openness to Mass with his family, his respect for Mary—show a man drawn to the Church. Erika’s life now carries that trajectory forward. Through her, many are watching not only his political legacy, but his spiritual one. I myself am holding my breath. Nervous, yes—but praying for unity.
In her memorial speech, Erika showed she understands the real test: not how loudly one proclaims loyalty, but how faithfully one lives it. She cannot control the doubts, the criticisms, or the theological disagreements—but she can control her witness. God grant her wisdom, humility, and courage. Let her bear the weight of this moment without faltering. And may Turning Point USA under her influence become more than a movement—may it become a place where all who love Christ, Catholic and Protestant alike, stand together not as rivals, but as companions in the battle for truth, for life, and for the soul of America and the world. We all need to be praying for Erika.