Embracing Love: Pope Francis Challenging Conventions, Echoes of Jesus' Radical Acceptance
When I was six years old, I had a dog named Honeybee — a beautiful German shepherd.
We were inseparable.
Then one morning, she was gone.
My mother told my brother sister and I she had gone to a farm where she would be happier.
Our hearts broke — and even now, decades later, I can still feel that ache.
Two years later, an even greater loss came.
My father woke us early one morning and told each of us one by one, that our mother had gone to Heaven.
God had taken her home.
A farm might have sounded easier to understand, but I wasn’t six anymore.
Once again, loss crushed me.
Many of us have lived through losses like these — or are living through them right now.
But know this: Jesus stands beside us in every sorrow, mourning with us, strengthening us, lifting us.
With Him, we can rise again.
Why did Jesus have to die?
Why do we suffer?
Why must we die?
Because God, in His mercy, knows what our hearts need to be transformed.
He uses suffering — and even death, with its hidden expiration date — not to punish us, but to purify us, to awaken love, and to prepare us for His Kingdom.
Death is not the end.
It’s our passage home.
Christ Himself walked that road first.
Stand beneath the Crucifix. Look up.
There is your proof.
That’s love.
“When we journey without the Cross, when we build without the Cross, and when we confess a Christ without the Cross, we are not disciples of the Lord: we are worldly.
I would like for us all, after these days of grace, to have courage — precisely the courage — to walk in the Lord’s presence, to build the Church upon the blood of the Lord poured out on the Cross, and to confess the only glory there is: Christ Crucified.”
~ Pope Francis
While entering a Catholic church in another town, I couldn’t help but notice a large image of the Resurrected Christ above the altar.
Below it, almost hidden, was a small Crucifix.
It crushed my heart.
It’s not that I don’t want to rejoice in the Resurrection — I do.
But I can’t get there without first standing at the Cross.
Without the Crucified Christ front and center — in our churches, our daily lives, and our souls — we lose our way.
When the image of the Risen Christ replaces the Crucified Christ, the great ship of faith begins to drift.
As Pope Francis warned, when we remove the Cross, we become worldly — shaping life and heaven in our own image.
Without the Crucified Christ, the Blood of our redemption dries up — and so do we.
If we try to skip from Good Friday to Easter Sunday, we end up with a joy that only appears real.
Our Catholic reality is this: suffering into joy — not around it.
And we’re not there yet.
The Cross and the Culture of Comfort
Over the past decades, some parishes have replaced the Crucifix with the Risen Christ above the Altar front and center.
Perhaps the motive was to make people feel more comfortable, to present a Christianity that seems more positive, less demanding.
And many good Catholics in those parishes have grown to love what they see, because their hearts are faithful.
But the symbol itself teaches something — even silently.
An “empty cross” or a smiling, floating Christ can project warmth, but it can also distort the truth.
Without the Cross, Christianity becomes a feeling, not a faith.
It becomes a message of comfort instead of conversion.
As the Church teaches in the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (§308):
“There is also to be a cross, with the figure of Christ crucified upon it, either on the altar or near it, where it is clearly visible to the people gathered together.”
Why?
Because the Mass is not a celebration around the Cross — it is the re-presentation of the Sacrifice of Calvary.
The altar is the Cross made present again.
And if the Cross is missing, what are we celebrating?
The Cost of Love
The Crucifix doesn’t make people feel comfortable — it makes them feel loved.
It reveals the cost of that love: blood, wounds, humility, surrender.
When the Crucifix is gone, we risk forgetting the depth of our redemption.
We cannot skip the Cross and still find Christ.
We cannot love the Resurrection without loving the wounds that made it possible.
Everything we need to know about forgiveness, happiness, and joy can be found at the foot of the Crucifix — looking up.
The peace that flows from Christ Crucified can heal what no pill, no drink, and no self-help guru ever could.
It’s no secret: without loss, there is no gain; without the Cross, there is no crown.
Some may say, “But I’ve had no suffering — I’m perfectly happy.”
A wise priest once smiled and said, “It ain’t over yet.”
There can be no heaven on earth, no hope for eternal joy, without the Crucified Christ.
That’s why every Catholic church must keep Christ on the Cross front and center — not as a symbol of defeat, but as the doorway to eternal victory.
When we allow suffering to become our friend, that friend becomes Jesus.
And when we embrace suffering, Jesus embraces us.
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