What is in a Smile

Often, we pass by strangers who nod and smile at us. Other times, we might ask a stranger for directions only to be answered with a distracted or annoyed tone of voice. It is no wonder we might question ourselves why some are friendly and obliging, while others are noticeably unconcerned with our need for help. As adults, we understand how we might encounter those who are “having a bad day”. Late for work, just received bad news, etc.

Therefore, we allow our thoughts to linger a bit on those who not only have time for being helpful and friendly, and what might account for such a disparity. We might think, are these people having a good day, or are they always friendly and helpful?

Could it be that some have learned through trial and error to focus on the moment, rather than the drama of the unforeseen? Could it be that they begin each day with a prayer to God, asking for His guidance and to lead them toward what God Himself did when he walked on Earth? We do realize that when we follow Jesus and pray, and when we read His word (which most of the time are instructions on how to live), we walk with joy, and a quiet sense of calm.)

Perhaps, we might all smile when we see someone looking anxious, in a hurry, or distressed. Just a smile and a soft “hello” can make the day for those who feel isolated and alone. Thinking of smiling more often, I am reminded how much time it takes to smile. Kindness and mercy do not always require sacrificing our time or our words. God gifts many with a pleasant smile; perhaps we should use it more often. Actually, that smile comes right back to us as soon as we give it because we, too, feel a little better about ourselves.